Your song, your story
A happy playlist for lonely times. Young people around the world choose a song and share a story about why it helps them.
A message from Esther
"Hi, I'm Esther, one of the young volunteers at the British Red Cross. As part of this loneliness project a group of us have been creating and developing resources we think might help other young people understand and tackle loneliness. I chose to create this playlist because I believe that music is a great way to tackle loneliness.
Loneliness might make people feel isolated, but sharing your favourite songs with others can connect people, especially now, when people feel further away than ever before. Listening to music has always been a pretty important feature of my happy place. I hope that this collaborative playlist of songs that make people happy can do the same for you and help you feel a little less lonely."
How can this help you?
Below you can see the songs everyone chose and why they chose them. Have a look through and think: Why did people choose that song, how are the reasons similar and different? Can you relate to any of the choices or reasons? What song would you choose and why?
Sharing things like this with each other helps us to know we are not alone. Start a conversation with someone you know about music or something that helps you feel happy in lonely times. What song would you choose and why?
Try listening to the songs listed, do they make you feel happy? Read the story as you listen. Can you connect with how they feel when they listen?
|(Sittin' On) the dock of the bay - Otis Redding||Not too sure why but those first cords just make me happy inside|
|Lovely Day - Bill Withers
||Need I really say more?|
|Backflip - Rivers Cuomo||Reminds me of how happy I felt when I watched the show that it came from. Even though it was a kids show, and I'm technically an adult, I feel like it reminds me that I'm still young y'know.|
|Stand Out - Tevin Campbell||It reminds me of my childhood when the world seemed limitless and I could be whoever I wanted and do whatever I wanted.|
|Hideaway - Tessanne Chin||It brings me back to being in Jamaica with my head sticking out the window as a kid with my family. Every time I play that song, I’m just happy.|
|You’ll be in my heart - Phil Collins
||It’s comforting, makes me feel like I’m not alone|
|Wish You Were Here - Pink Floyd||Kind of a sad one but really relatable when you’re feeling lonely|
|Leezie Lindsay - Eddi Reader||The quiet atmosphere this song set is really nice, it can calm me down when I am lonely and kind of sad.|
|Ghost Of You - 5 Seconds Of Summer||I sing this one with my friend and it reminds me of her when I’m not with her|
|What’s up - 4 Non Blondes||This song really encapsulates being a young person to me, and not really knowing what’s going on but telling yourself it’s ok to not feel ok all the time, especially when you sing the chorus really loud. Plus, it reminds me of a TV show me and my best friends used to watch together and now they live on the other side of the world and listening to this song helps me feel closer to them.|
|One Day Like This - Elbow||My dad used to play it a lot when I was younger and it’s just filled with hope|
|Romantic Ageru yu (The Dragon Ball end theme) - Bosa nova version||This song makes me feel like I’m going on an adventure, full of excitement, it’s going to be lots of fun on the journey, the future is bright! Seriously, that’s how I feel about this song, one of my top ten!|
|Brothers on the slide - Cymande||It’s both jazzy yet modern and makes me feel like my music taste is more sophisticated than it really is!|
|Black Betty - Caravan Palace
||The tempo is fast and fun!
|Dare - Gorillaz
||It was one of the first songs that I listened to by the Gorillaz. It’s extra special to me because the Gorillaz were the first band that I discovered on my own that I actually liked
|Good Times - Roll Deep & Jodie Connor||Reminds me of the dance parties that my siblings and I had when we were younger. This song was all over the radio and it was always a good time when we heard it|
|Drop in the ocean - OMI & AronChupa||It’s got an upbeat tempo and always makes me feel like dancing. Dancing makes me happy :)
|Tiger Feet - Mud
||Just can’t help but dance around when this comes on.
|Lollipop - Mika||I like it because my sister introduced it to me when we were younger and it reminds me of when I was little and life was good
|Different Colours - WALK THE MOON||This song is all about celebrating our differences and supporting each other which is a powerful message when you feel lonely. In particular, the lyrics ‘We carry each other, we're just different colors’ resonates with me because regardless of where you come from and what your struggles might be, it’s important to remember that there are others to help carry you through it.|
|September - Earth Wind and Fire||I can’t be in a bad mood when I hear this song - certified anthem and no mistake. It’s just got such a good and instantly identifiable opening few seconds that get me in a boogying mood!|
|Brown Skin Girl - Beyoncé, Blue Ivy, SAINt JHN, WizKid||This song never fails to put a smile on my face and a spring in my step. The message of loving and appreciating your natural beauty and your perfection just the way you are is made so much more poignant by the dynamic of Beyoncé singing it with and for her daughter. It fills me with so much hope that the next generation of little girls are learning how to love themselves and recognise their value regardless of the colour of their skin much better than we did, and that they will make this world better, brighter and more equal.|
|We’re All in This Together - High School Musical
||It’s a fun care-free mainstream song, but it actually has a deep reassuring and positive message.|
Esther is a part of the Generation Digital project which aims to connect isolated people through technology.
The songs listed above were chosen by young volunteers. Their appearance on this page does not constitute an endorsement by the British Red Cross.